Liver Cancer Support: How to Help Someone with Cancer

“It only happens to alcoholics.”

“You should’ve looked after yourself better.”

Even though chronic liver disease is very common, there’s still a lot of stigma attached to it—especially for people with alcohol-related liver disease. In a survey by the British Liver Trust, more than 70% of people said they had faced negative attitudes because of their condition.

Many people assume that liver disease is caused by things like heavy drinking, poor eating habits, or drug use. Because of this, patients often feel judged or blamed for their illness. They may worry that others think they lack self-control or willpower, which can make living with the disease even harder.

While it is true that drinking too much does lead to liver damage, blaming patients for their past habits can be counterproductive. Such negative pressure could instead deter patients from seeing their doctor, following treatment plans or reaching out if they need extra support. They might even feel the need to lie about their alcohol use in order to avoid judgment.

Be mindful of your words—avoid blame or judgment

It’s important to focus on what’s happening now, rather than what may have led to the illness. Some doctors recommend shifting the conversation away from blaming past behaviors and instead focusing on the fact that the liver is now damaged and needs care. For example, instead of saying, “This happened because you drank too much,” you could say, “Your liver isn’t working well now, so we need to figure out how to manage that.”

This kind of language helps reduce guilt and shame, and can make it easier for your loved one to accept help and make healthy changes.

Recognize that alcohol isn’t the only cause

Liver cancer can be caused by many things—including hepatitis B or C, genetics, or non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. Understanding that there are multiple possible causes can help your loved one feel less judged and more supported.

Be available with support and resources

Let your loved one know you’re there for them and be ready to share helpful resources when they’re open to it. Sometimes, just offering to listen or helping them find support groups can make a big difference.

The most important thing you can do for your loved one is to simply be there for them—and it sounds like you’re already doing that. Offer support in ways that center their needs and feelings. If they seem overwhelmed or stressed, try doing something familiar and comforting together, like taking a walk, watching a favorite show, or just spending quiet time with them. Let them share their thoughts when they’re ready, but don’t pressure them to talk if they’re not in the mood.

When you have a moment, it’s a good idea to learn about the support groups, programs, and resources available nearby or online. If your loved one is open to it, gently sharing these options can be helpful.

Here are a few examples of liver cancer support resources:

• Liver Cancer Support Group (American Liver Foundation)
• Peer-to-Peer Support (Blue Faery and Imerman Angels)
• Liver Cancer Stories (Our Cancer Stories)

The fact that you’re reading this shows how much you care. Sometimes, just listening and being present can make a world of difference. And by helping to break the stigma around liver disease, you can make it easier for your loved one—and others—to seek the care and support they deserve.