Hi, my name is Archer, and I’ve been diagnosed with prostate cancer. I’m currently receiving treatment and have been navigating the challenges that come with this diagnosis. Despite the fear I had when I was diagnosed, I feel neutral about my situation now, having accepted the outcome as part of my journey.

I first found out that I have prostate cancer through a routine check-up. I was having back pain and asked to take a PSA test. Then in June 2024, the diagnosis was confirmed as stage 4 prostate cancer.

The stage 4 cancer diagnosis hit me hard. Fear and sadness rushed in, and I thought that my life was over.

I chose to do only hormone therapy myself. I am currently taking Zodalex and Apalutamide. After deciding on this treatment plan, I felt hopeful and pleased that I was getting help.

My treatment routine includes body scans which last 1 hour, followed by belly injections. I go through this once a month, and on top of that, I take tablets everyday.

I receive financial aid from the NHS.

Fortunately, I don’t have any side effects from the hormone therapy. However, I wish I had known more info on hormone injections before the treatment - like needing to collect your own prescriptions from the chemist to bring to the surgeon to be administered.

One of the most significant lifestyle changes I made after my diagnosis was adjusting my alcohol intake. Having cancer also prompted me to slow down on the things I do and start planning for the future, especially for my wife.

While I didn’t face major challenges in my personal life, I did find value in purchasing a rise and recliner chair as well as a pillow, which has made my day-to-day comfort much better.

Throughout my journey, my biggest fear has been wondering what will happen when “the time” is near and how I will feel then. I have not gotten there yet. I intend to ask my consultant when I speak to him next.

Today, I feel rather neutral, as I’ve come to terms with my diagnosis and expected the outcome.

To other cancer patients, I recommend looking up meals suitable for cancer patients and cutting out red meat. Organise your own funeral with what you want at it. And make a will.

It takes a while for everything to sink in. But with time, you start to accept it, then the fear slowly goes away.