Hi, I’m Edith. My stage 3 breast cancer is currently in remission.

While uncertainty is one of my biggest fears, I try my best to live in the moment.

It all began when I noticed rapid and significant changes in the size and shape of my left breast. Later, I also noticed a new lump. Worried about these symptoms, I sought medical attention. I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer.

The news made me feel powerless, vulnerable and guilty for not recognising the symptoms earlier. However, there was a sense of optimism. I felt incredibly safe and confident in the ability of my entire medical team which made me feel hopeful and safe.

I made some changes in my lifestyle, as I focused on prioritising my health and listening to my body. Specifically, I reduced my alcohol intake from three to just one drink a week.

My oncologists recommended the following treatment options: a mastectomy, chemotherapy, radiation therapy, hormone therapy, targeted therapy and immunotherapy.

After taking their advice into consideration and doing my own research, I eventually went through with this treatment plan despite feeling somewhat anxious and discouraged.

As of now, my breast cancer is in remission, but I’m continuing hormone therapy and now, I’ve had to start lymphoma treatment.

Some of the chemo drugs I took included docetaxel, platinum agents, and antibody drug conjugates (ADC). 

Over the course of treatment, I did face diarrhea, fatigue and hair loss. Thankfully with the help of prescribed medication, I could manage these side effects.

Apart from reducing my alcohol intake, I didn’t make any further adjustments to my lifestyle. My relationships with my family also didn’t change much throughout my journey.

Regular international travel is something to look forward to for me. With my loved ones, I just want to enjoy spending time together.

My biggest fears are the treatments not working and the unknown future. To cope with this fear of uncertainty, I try my best to live in the moment.

I’m still fearful of a further cancer diagnosis.

Accept offers of help. Listen to your body, the awful times & symptoms will pass. Ask lots of questions and share how you are feeling and symptoms you are experiencing with your medical team.